The Drive-Thru Test: A New Measure of Unconditional Kindness
- Curtis Campogni
- Jan 9
- 2 min read
You’ve probably heard of the grocery cart test—the viral social media phenomenon that sparked heated debates about character and responsibility. The premise is simple: putting away your grocery cart is seen as the ultimate litmus test for kindness. But let’s be honest—life isn’t always that straightforward.
So, I’m here to introduce a new challenge. A real-world scenario that takes kindness to the next level: The Drive-Thru Test.
What Is the Drive-Thru Test?
Picture this: You’re parked near a busy drive-thru. The only way out is to back up, but the line is long, and someone’s car is blocking your escape route. The question is:
What happens next?
Do they notice you trying to leave and back up to make room?
Do they sit there, blissfully unaware of your situation?
Or worse, do they refuse to budge, thinking, “I need my coffee, and that’s not my problem”?
This moment is more than just a minor inconvenience. It’s a snapshot of someone’s true nature—a test of unconditional kindness.
Breaking Down the Drive-Thru Test
The First Person: They see the situation and act without hesitation, backing up to make room for you. This is kindness in action—simple, selfless, and impactful.
The Second Person: Maybe they miss the cue at first, but once they notice, they correct the mistake. They’re not perfect, but hey, they make it right in the end.
The Third Person: They stay put, whether due to distraction, indifference, or outright refusal. Maybe their kindness tank is running a little low today.
Why It Matters
We all have moments when life feels overwhelming—busy schedules, tight deadlines, or just a bad day. But the Drive-Thru Test is about more than convenience or responsibility. It’s about choice:
Do you notice others around you?
Do you take small actions to make someone’s day a little easier?
Passing the Drive-Thru Test
So, what do your actions say about you? Do you pass the Drive-Thru Test?
Here’s the thing: kindness is a skill we can all work on. It’s a muscle we can strengthen with practice, one small act at a time. Because when we notice, pause, and act with empathy, we create ripple effects of positivity.
Your Challenge
Next time you’re in a drive-thru—or any situation where you can choose to make someone’s day easier—ask yourself: Am I acting with unconditional kindness?
Let’s raise our kindness game together, one drive-thru test at a time.
What do you think?
Have you ever been in a situation like this?
Drop your thoughts in the comments, and let’s talk about the small ways we can make a big difference.
Disclaimer
The views expressed in this blog are solely those of the author and do not represent any other individual, organization, or company. This content is intended for general knowledge and to highlight tools, techniques, and ideas that inspire positive change. Readers are encouraged to explore the topics further and form their own conclusions.
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